fix!: exclude installed files if listed in exclude

[henryiii]

As mentioned in our recent Community Meeting.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 86.36364% with 3 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 86.30%. Comparing base (e6ae46d) to head (22d839e).

Files	Patch %	Lines
src/scikit_build_core/build/_wheelfile.py	80.00%	3 Missing ⚠️

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[henryiii]

This is a behavior change, though I'd be willing to consider the old behavior a bug. Previously, wheel exclude matched on the SDist/source path. Now it matches on the final wheel path.

Not sure to just call this a bug fix, or to add back-compat for it via minimum-version.

[henryiii]

No packages (by either PyPI search or GitHub search) were found that would be affected by this change, so the plan is to make it as a bug fix, document this in the changelog, and be open to adding a compat setting for it if someone does end up needing it.