include dylib in search for package contents

[andy-neuma]

SUMMARY:
This enables packaging of the "dylib" files into mac "wheel" file. Updates setup.py to include files with extension .dylib and adds src/deepsparse/neon to the manifest via recursive-include.

TEST:

• verified the "wheel" package is built and installable.

• looked through "wheel" package contents and verified our magic bits are present.

steve_jobs@wontkins deepsparse % ls neon 
total 366928
drwxr-xr-x   5 steve_jobs  staff        160 Jun 26 15:20 .
drwxr-xr-x  29 steve_jobs  staff        928 Jun 26 15:20 ..
-rwxr-xr-x   1 steve_jobs  staff    1400372 Jun 26  2023 deepsparse_engine.so
-rwxr-xr-x   1 steve_jobs  staff    1195712 Jun 26  2023 libdeepsparse.dylib
-rwxr-xr-x   1 steve_jobs  staff  185267880 Jun 26  2023 libonnxruntime.1.12.0.dylib

• installed on multiple mac machines and ran simple benchmarks, e.g.

deepsparse.benchmark zoo:nlp/sentiment_analysis/obert-base/pytorch/huggingface/sst2/base-none --batch_size 64

[mgoin]

nice, we will also need to update utils/artifacts.py in order to pull down the right dylib artifacts for aarch64

[bfineran]

test failure appears unrelated, merging