CI: Update outdated GitHub Actions

[bayandin]

Problem

We have some amount of outdated action in the CI pipeline, GitHub complains about some of them.

Summary of changes

• Update actions/checkout@1 (really old one) in vm-compute-node-image
• Update actions/checkout@3 in build-build-tools-image
• Update docker/setup-buildx-action in all workflows / jobs, it was downgraded in CI: fix docker/setup-buildx-action & update rustls #7445, but it seems it works now

Checklist before requesting a review

• I have performed a self-review of my code.
• If it is a core feature, I have added thorough tests.
• Do we need to implement analytics? if so did you add the relevant metrics to the dashboard?
• If this PR requires public announcement, mark it with /release-notes label and add several sentences in this section.

Checklist before merging

• Do not forget to reformat commit message to not include the above checklist

[github-actions]

3216 tests run: 3075 passed, 0 failed, 141 skipped (full report)

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Flaky tests (1)

Postgres 15

• test_storage_controller_smoke: debug

Code coverage* (full report)

• functions: 31.5% (6635 of 21060 functions)
• lines: 48.6% (51641 of 106255 lines)

* collected from Rust tests only

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[a-masterov]

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