Set SO_REUSEADDR on epoll tcp listener sockets #2911

Job	Run time
Ubuntu (linux, ubuntu-20.04, x64, openssl) / Build	3m 2s
Ubuntu (linux, ubuntu-22.04, x64, openssl3) / Build	3m 7s
Ubuntu (linux, ubuntu-24.04, x64, openssl3, -UseXdp) / Build	3m 19s
Windows (windows, windows-2022, x64, openssl3) / Build	5m 20s
Windows (windows, windows-2022, x64, openssl) / Build	4m 50s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Binaries (ios, x64) / Build	3m 57s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Binaries (macos, arm64) / Build	2m 37s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Binaries (macos, x64) / Build	3m 45s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Binaries (ios, arm64) / Build	3m 29s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Universal Binaries	28s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Framework (ios, x64)	19s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Framework (ios, arm64)	48s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin Framework (macos, universal)	24s
Build All Darwin Frameworks / Build Darwin XCFramework	32s
DotNet Test (windows, windows-2022, x64, openssl)	1m 52s
DotNet Test (windows, windows-2022, x64, openssl3)	2m 25s
DotNet Test (linux, ubuntu-20.04, x64, openssl)	1m 17s
DotNet Test (linux, ubuntu-22.04, x64, openssl3)	1m 18s
DotNet Test (linux, ubuntu-24.04, x64, openssl3, -UseXdp)	1m 36s
DotNet Test (macos, macos-12, universal, openssl)	27s
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