Fix schema delta to not take as long on large servers

Introduced in #6739

synapse/storage/schema/main/delta/59/11add_knock_members_to_stats.sql

@@ -13,5 +13,8 @@
  * limitations under the License.
  */
 
-ALTER TABLE room_stats_current ADD COLUMN knocked_members INT NOT NULL DEFAULT '0';
-ALTER TABLE room_stats_historical ADD COLUMN knocked_members BIGINT NOT NULL DEFAULT '0';
+-- Existing rows will default to NULL, so anything reading from these tables
+-- needs to interpret NULL as 0. This is fine here as no existing rooms can have
+-- any knocked members.
+ALTER TABLE room_stats_current ADD COLUMN knocked_members INT;
+ALTER TABLE room_stats_historical ADD COLUMN knocked_members BIGINT;