[kafka-producer] Support setting max message size

[sappusaketh]

Which problem is this PR solving?

• Exposes MaxMessageBytes config mentioned in Ingester: Message was too large, server rejected it to avoid allocation error. #1335

Description of the changes

• Adds support to set MaxMessageBytes config on producer
• Also setting a default which matches with sarama default unclear if we need to set that default explicitly from jaeger producer initialization

How was this change tested?

• Tested on our development jaeger cluster. After seeing below error we made following changes and built a new Image and verified that my changes fixed the issue

{"level":"error","ts":1550003610.8029132,"caller":"kafka/writer.go:59","msg":"kafka server: Message was too large, server rejected it to avoid allocation error.","stacktrace":"[github.com/jaegertracing/jaeger/plugin/storage/kafka.NewSpanWriter.func2](http://github.com/jaegertracing/jaeger/plugin/storage/kafka.NewSpanWriter.func2)\n\t/home/travis/gopath/src/github.com/jaegertracing/jaeger/plugin/storage/kafka/writer.go:59"}

Checklist

• I have read https://github.com/jaegertracing/jaeger/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING_GUIDELINES.md
• I have signed all commits
• I have added unit tests for the new functionality
• I have run lint and test steps successfully
  • for jaeger: make lint test
  • for jaeger-ui: yarn lint and yarn test

[yurishkuro]

thanks

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 95.09%. Comparing base (083806f) to head (9648fb4).

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