feat: add support for IE11

[buschtoens]

Internet Explorer 11 does not fully support addEventListener. The last argument, eventOptions, is ignored and sometimes throws a weird script error.
This also means that { once: true } did not work in IE11.

This PR polyfills support for { once: true } in IE11 and discards any other eventOptions to prevent script errors.

[pzuraq]

@buschtoens it looks like IE11 supports useCapture as the third argument, so we can also support the capture=true API for it. For passive, in development we could replace the e.preventDefault method with one that throws an assertion before passing the event to its handler, that way users can't call it accidentally. I think this would be ideal, since it would mean that behavior is the same for all options between the browser versions.

[pzuraq]

Also great work here, thanks for nailing this down 😄