fix DubboRelaxedBinding2AutoConfiguration and DubboAutoConfiguration created to early

[xixingya]

What is the purpose of the change

fix DubboRelaxedBinding2AutoConfiguration and DubboAutoConfiguration created to early

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see #14253 and dubbo 3.3 pr see #13461

[sonarcloud]

Quality Gate passed

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[AlbumenJ]

@CrazyHZM PTAL

[CrazyHZM]

@xixingya Please describe the scene.

[xixingya]

@xixingya Please describe the scene.

@CrazyHZM #14253 this issue, dubbo 3.2 will have warn log

[FoghostCn]

ref #13461