Fix delay publish deadlock

[AlbumenJ]

What is the purpose of the change

Fix #13560

Brief changelog

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[sonarcloud]

Quality Gate passed

Kudos, no new issues were introduced!

0 New issues
0 Security Hotspots
50.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Comparison is base (e26a22d) 70.39% compared to head (6f1835a) 70.38%.
Report is 2 commits behind head on 3.2.

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[AlbumenJ]

Integration cases: apache/dubbo-integration-cases#5