GH-38201: [CI][Packaging] Pin zlib 1.2.13 when using thrift on conan

[raulcd]

Rationale for this change

There is a conflict between the required Zlib version when using both thrift and GRPC.

What changes are included in this PR?

Pinning zlib when using thrifht.

Are these changes tested?

Via archery

Are there any user-facing changes?

No

• Closes: [CI][Packaging] Conan maximum fails with zlib conflict #38201

[raulcd]

@github-actions crossbow submit conan-maximum

[github-actions]

⚠️ GitHub issue #38201 has been automatically assigned in GitHub to PR creator.

[github-actions]

Revision: a174afc

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-dbb832daad

Task	Status
conan-maximum

[assignUser]

Sounds logical, thanks!

[kou]

In general, we should not add our workaround to only our copy as much as possible. Instead, we should fix a problem in upstream and our side as much as possible.
It's for maintainability and Conan related tests' propose. We want to avoid problems as much as possible when we update https://github.com/conan-io/conan-center-index/tree/master/recipes/arrow as a post release task. If we have changes that exist only in our side, we may not be able to detect problems in our Conan related CI jobs.

In this case, it seems that there is a fix in upstream: conan-io/conan-center-index#19803
How about synchronizing ci/conan/ with https://github.com/conan-io/conan-center-index/tree/master/recipes/arrow instead of this change?
We can use ci/conan/merge_upstream.sh for it. I can do it. But if anyone wants to do it, I can help the person.

[raulcd]

Thanks @kou ! Sorry, I should have already done that. I've gave it a try on this PR: #38237

[conbench-apache-arrow]

After merging your PR, Conbench analyzed the 5 benchmarking runs that have been run so far on merge-commit 757cf3e.

There were no benchmark performance regressions. 🎉

The full Conbench report has more details. It also includes information about 4 possible false positives for unstable benchmarks that are known to sometimes produce them.