Add some color to children-vs-codegen error (#583)

It took me some time to track down the root cause of `children`
not matching codegen, having the error message directly hint that
visit and codegen are probably mimatched (my visit was running
out-of-order) will likely help newbies get going faster.

libcst/_nodes/tests/base.py

@@ -137,7 +137,9 @@ def __assert_children_match_codegen(self, node: cst.CSTNode) -> None:
             codegen_children,
             msg=(
                 "The list of children we got from `node.children` differs from the "
-                + "children that were visited by `node._codegen`."
+                + "children that were visited by `node._codegen`. This is probably "
+                + "due to a mismatch between _visit_and_replace_children and "
+                + "_codegen_impl."
             ),
         )