Cmake version deprecations fix

[ptheywood]

Fixes deprecation notice of removal of cmake_minimum_required <= 3.5 in dependencencies with CMake >= 3.27 (or 3.26.4?).

• Updates Google test to the latest tagged release
• Updates rapid json to the most recent version which does not break our method of fetch content + find_package without cmake install, and patches that commit to avoid the cmake_minimum_required error
• Update vendored vector-of-bool/cmrc to 952ffdd FLAMEGPU2-visualiser#132 fixes the same issue with CMakeRC there. The commit hash here will need updating post merge, and then again for the next release.

Closes #1156

[ptheywood]

vis pr merged, need to update hash then can merge this.