tar_exists_*() functions

[wlandau]

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Proposal

Check the existence of various parts of the data store:

• tar_exist_meta()
• tar_exist_objects(names)
• tar_exist_progress()
• tar_exist_process()
• tar_exist_script()

Use tar_exists_script() in tar_watch().