[FEA] Make failed patches fatal

[Jacobfaib]

Currently, when a patch fails, rapids-cmake will log the failure under $CMAKE_BUILD_DIR/rapids-cmake/<the-dep>/log and silently continue. Sometimes, however, it is vital that a patch succeed and in this case it is useful to immediately error out at configure-time to alert the developer of the failing patch.

For example, the versions.json spec could be updated to incorporate such a feature per patch:

"<some_package>" : {
  "patches" : [
    {
      "file" : ...
      "required" : true, # false by default
    }
  ]
}