Update connect to compute and wake compute retry configs

[khanova]

Problem

Summary of changes

Decrease waiting time

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2766 tests run: 2645 passed, 0 failed, 121 skipped (full report)

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Flaky tests (1)

Postgres 16

• test_vm_bit_clear_on_heap_lock: debug

Code coverage* (full report)

• functions: 28.1% (6478 of 23037 functions)
• lines: 46.9% (46006 of 98022 lines)

* collected from Rust tests only

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