[SPARK-46335][BUILD] Upgrade Maven to 3.9.6 for MNG-7913

This PR aims to upgrade `Apache Maven` to 3.9.6.

Apache Maven 3.9.6 has MNG-7913 to improve Java supports. Although it's only for up to Java 19, this is better than the previous condition (up to Java 14).
- apache/maven#1286

> To version that supports gleaning JSR330 component classes up to Java 19. The reasoning of this change is only to allow 3rd party Maven plugins/Maven extensions/other JSR330 components (managed by Maven embedded Sisu) to use bytecode newer that Java 14 (Sisu 0.3.5).

No.

Pass the CIs.

No.

Closes apache#44267 from dongjoon-hyun/SPARK-46335.

Authored-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>
Signed-off-by: yangjie01 <yangjie01@baidu.com>

dev/appveyor-install-dependencies.ps1

@@ -81,7 +81,7 @@ if (!(Test-Path $tools)) {
 # ========================== Maven
 # Push-Location $tools
 #
-# $mavenVer = "3.8.8"
+# $mavenVer = "3.9.6"
 # Start-FileDownload "https://archive.apache.org/dist/maven/maven-3/$mavenVer/binaries/apache-maven-$mavenVer-bin.zip" "maven.zip"
 #
 # # extract

pom.xml

@@ -114,7 +114,7 @@
     <java.version>1.8</java.version>
     <maven.compiler.source>${java.version}</maven.compiler.source>
     <maven.compiler.target>${java.version}</maven.compiler.target>
-    <maven.version>3.8.8</maven.version>
+    <maven.version>3.9.6</maven.version>
     <exec-maven-plugin.version>1.6.0</exec-maven-plugin.version>
     <sbt.project.name>spark</sbt.project.name>
     <asm.version>9.5</asm.version>