diff --git a/doc/whats-new.rst b/doc/whats-new.rst
index 9e59fdc5b35..9c16fb74a7b 100644
--- a/doc/whats-new.rst
+++ b/doc/whats-new.rst
@@ -22,6 +22,8 @@ v0.17.1 (unreleased)
 
 New Features
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~
+- Allow passing ``combine_attrs`` to :py:meth:`Dataset.merge` (:pull:`4895`).
+  By `Justus Magin <https://github.com/keewis>`_.
 - Support for `dask.graph_manipulation
   <https://docs.dask.org/en/latest/graph_manipulation.html>`_ (requires dask >=2021.3)
   By `Guido Imperiale <https://github.com/crusaderky>`_
diff --git a/xarray/core/dataset.py b/xarray/core/dataset.py
index a4001c747bb..db45157e7c1 100644
--- a/xarray/core/dataset.py
+++ b/xarray/core/dataset.py
@@ -3917,6 +3917,7 @@ def merge(
         compat: str = "no_conflicts",
         join: str = "outer",
         fill_value: Any = dtypes.NA,
+        combine_attrs: str = "override",
     ) -> "Dataset":
         """Merge the arrays of two datasets into a single dataset.
 
@@ -3945,7 +3946,6 @@ def merge(
             - 'no_conflicts': only values which are not null in both datasets
               must be equal. The returned dataset then contains the combination
               of all non-null values.
-
         join : {"outer", "inner", "left", "right", "exact"}, optional
             Method for joining ``self`` and ``other`` along shared dimensions:
 
@@ -3957,6 +3957,18 @@ def merge(
         fill_value : scalar or dict-like, optional
             Value to use for newly missing values. If a dict-like, maps
             variable names (including coordinates) to fill values.
+        combine_attrs : {"drop", "identical", "no_conflicts", "drop_conflicts", \
+                        "override"}, default: "override"
+            String indicating how to combine attrs of the objects being merged:
+
+            - "drop": empty attrs on returned Dataset.
+            - "identical": all attrs must be the same on every object.
+            - "no_conflicts": attrs from all objects are combined, any that have
+              the same name must also have the same value.
+            - "drop_conflicts": attrs from all objects are combined, any that have
+              the same name but different values are dropped.
+            - "override": skip comparing and copy attrs from the first dataset to
+              the result.
 
         Returns
         -------
@@ -3976,6 +3988,7 @@ def merge(
             compat=compat,
             join=join,
             fill_value=fill_value,
+            combine_attrs=combine_attrs,
         )
         return self._replace(**merge_result._asdict())
 
diff --git a/xarray/core/merge.py b/xarray/core/merge.py
index 14beeff3db5..ec95563bda9 100644
--- a/xarray/core/merge.py
+++ b/xarray/core/merge.py
@@ -893,6 +893,7 @@ def dataset_merge_method(
     compat: str,
     join: str,
     fill_value: Any,
+    combine_attrs: str,
 ) -> _MergeResult:
     """Guts of the Dataset.merge method."""
     # we are locked into supporting overwrite_vars for the Dataset.merge
@@ -922,7 +923,12 @@ def dataset_merge_method(
         priority_arg = 2
 
     return merge_core(
-        objs, compat, join, priority_arg=priority_arg, fill_value=fill_value
+        objs,
+        compat,
+        join,
+        priority_arg=priority_arg,
+        fill_value=fill_value,
+        combine_attrs=combine_attrs,
     )
 
 
diff --git a/xarray/tests/test_merge.py b/xarray/tests/test_merge.py
index 27e2b10dcbc..5b84eccca14 100644
--- a/xarray/tests/test_merge.py
+++ b/xarray/tests/test_merge.py
@@ -418,3 +418,34 @@ def test_merge_dataarray(self):
         da = xr.DataArray(data=1, name="b")
 
         assert_identical(ds.merge(da), xr.merge([ds, da]))
+
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        ["combine_attrs", "attrs1", "attrs2", "expected_attrs", "expect_error"],
+        # don't need to test thoroughly
+        (
+            ("drop", {"a": 0, "b": 1, "c": 2}, {"a": 1, "b": 2, "c": 3}, {}, False),
+            (
+                "drop_conflicts",
+                {"a": 0, "b": 1, "c": 2},
+                {"b": 2, "c": 2, "d": 3},
+                {"a": 0, "c": 2, "d": 3},
+                False,
+            ),
+            ("override", {"a": 0, "b": 1}, {"a": 1, "b": 2}, {"a": 0, "b": 1}, False),
+            ("no_conflicts", {"a": 0, "b": 1}, {"a": 0, "b": 2}, None, True),
+            ("identical", {"a": 0, "b": 1}, {"a": 0, "b": 2}, None, True),
+        ),
+    )
+    def test_merge_combine_attrs(
+        self, combine_attrs, attrs1, attrs2, expected_attrs, expect_error
+    ):
+        ds1 = xr.Dataset(attrs=attrs1)
+        ds2 = xr.Dataset(attrs=attrs2)
+
+        if expect_error:
+            with pytest.raises(xr.MergeError):
+                ds1.merge(ds2, combine_attrs=combine_attrs)
+        else:
+            actual = ds1.merge(ds2, combine_attrs=combine_attrs)
+            expected = xr.Dataset(attrs=expected_attrs)
+            assert_identical(actual, expected)