Update CICE for latest Consortium/main

[DeniseWorthen]

PRs that have gone into Consortium/main (after CICE-Consortium#752) need to be brought into emc/develop. These include commits which should not change baselines for UFS:

CICE-Consortium#760. This contains bug-fixes when aerosols are enabled as a tracer. UFS does not currently use this feature.

CICE-Consortium#771. This updates the grid location of calculated (variable) drag coefficients. UFS does not use a variable drag coefficient.

CICE-Consortium#764. This refactors the calculation of ice/ocean stress at the T-grid centers. It does not contain a change to whether these stresses are scaled by ice fraction.

CICE-Consortium#787. This completes the deprecation of 0-layer thermodynamics and cesm ponds.

CICE-Consortium#785. This refactors some code in the nuopc cap initialization to allow async io and add a check for consistency between the mesh mask and the grid file mask.

The following PRs are expected to change baselines for UFS:

CICE-Consortium#755. This updates the deformation call used to calculate shear, divu, rdg_conv and rdg_shear to be based on the velocities calculated at ksub=ndte instead of ksub=ndte-1.

CICE-Consortium#762. This updates the grid averaging for tmass, aice to use masked-area weighting.