[network] Sui-breaking change in the switch to Anemo

[huitseeker]

how to reproduce

Take a fresh sui main and bump its NW commit by exactly one commit, essentially bringing on just #668 :

huitseeker@sleipnir➜huitseeker/tmp/sui(main✗)» git rev-parse HEAD                                                                                                                    709335729d0850646b54c2df7e0f26c03ec5fd98
huitseeker@sleipnir➜huitseeker/tmp/sui(main✗)» find ./ -iname "*.toml"  -execdir sed -i '' -re 's/842a611a0a58dd378a904d85f79b4edbbbc7b137/c969da55ca1812be2360c1a1e730d03d4b867bcc/' '{}' \;

Then run tests: cargo nextest run --profile ci

• most shared objects tests, checkpoint tests run forever,
• a large amount of tests fail:

877:test authority::authority_tests::test_handle_certificate_interrupted_retry ... FAILED
910:test authority::authority_tests::test_handle_certificate_interrupted_retry ... FAILED
942:test authority::authority_tests::test_handle_certificate_interrupted_retry ... FAILED
1322:test test_full_node_move_function_index ... FAILED
1626:test cluster_test ... FAILED
1967:test test_full_node_shared_objects ... FAILED
2287:test end_to_end ... FAILED
2558:test end_to_end_with_one_byzantine ... FAILED
2953:test test_full_node_move_function_index ... FAILED
3292:test test_full_node_shared_objects ... FAILED
3371:test node_sync::node_follower::test::test_follower ... FAILED
3648:test end_to_end ... FAILED
3923:test end_to_end_with_one_byzantine ... FAILED
4021:test gateway_state::gateway_state_tests::test_equivocation_resilient ... FAILED
4778:test test_full_node_sync_flood ... FAILED
5191:test test_full_node_move_function_index ... FAILED
5371:test gateway_state::gateway_state_tests::test_equivocation_resilient ... FAILED
5710:test test_full_node_shared_objects ... FAILED
6011:test end_to_end ... FAILED
6294:test end_to_end_with_one_byzantine ... FAILED
6808:test cluster_test ... FAILED
7399:test test_full_node_sync_flood ... FAILED
7911:test cluster_test ... FAILED
8456:test test_full_node_sync_flood ... FAILED

Full log: https://gist.github.com/b16fa65e83d4a45789662e7ebac8fbbf

These results are reproducible, more or less identically, when moving the NW pointer to 2d2f46c (#918), 35b9bdd (#908), which hints that this has not been fixed in the meantime.